Tiger Mama Susan Patton’s Ineffectual Marriage Strategy
You Can’t Take the Market Out of Sexual Market Value
The Amorality of Seduction Techniques
15 Good Reasons to Call Off Your Next Bender
How to Choose Your Marriage Partner
Is the Pill Making You Choose the Wrong Men?
The Combustible Mixture of Sex and Alcohol
Look for Green Lights When Choosing a Partner
It strikes me that perhaps thou doth protest too much. If you are 100% comfortable with your fiance’s sexual history, that’s great. As I said earlier, she’s a very lucky woman. I have no idea what her number is, but for the record, I’m not speaking about women who have been with a few guys, or several guys. I’m speaking about women who rack up large numbers. I know several college students with numbers in the 30-50 range, and they’re totally freaked out about it. Yes, they lie because they know their bf’s will balk, but also because they want to erase those memories of irresponsible, drunken, crappy sex (most of which they had for ego reasons, speaking of ego.)
tom says:
December 16, 2010 at 4:08 pm
terre
I guess you missed my comment about the millions of college girls over the years who got around in college, but managed to get married and are now soccer moms?…lol…Kinda blows your “one reformed slut” theory out of the water doesnt it?
I grew up in the hippy era, you remember, free love. Being pomiscuous is nothing new, it is just talked about more now. I know of MANY women who slept around and yet now live humble modest lives……
You guys must have met some real losers who were also promiscuous, because, having lots of sex “can” be just like why people start smoking. the cool thing to do, peer pressure etc…not all people who sleep around as psycotic
Abbot says:
December 16, 2010 at 4:19 pm
“Can we not say the same things about promiscuous men? Are not their former women still out there?. Isnt it just as easy for a man to shed his clothes for another if the marriage gets a little rocky?
women have accepted men in the boys will be boys senario for years. So what is wong with men? why cant they do the same?”
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Of course its the same for men. But there are far fewer men with the number of people he has had sex with compared to women. The point is women are NOT doing the same! They have gone way beyond what men were or are doing because its so much much easier for them to do that. This is not equality at all…its a very skewed activity and men are very uncomfortable with what is going on and are on alert when a woman says she wants to “settle down.” The current situation places women as guilty until proven otherwise, and I think rightly so.
terre says:
December 16, 2010 at 4:20 pm
You Can’t Take the Market Out of Sexual Market Value
The Amorality of Seduction Techniques
15 Good Reasons to Call Off Your Next Bender
How to Choose Your Marriage Partner
Is the Pill Making You Choose the Wrong Men?
The Combustible Mixture of Sex and Alcohol
Look for Green Lights When Choosing a Partner
It strikes me that perhaps thou doth protest too much. If you are 100% comfortable with your fiance’s sexual history, that’s great. As I said earlier, she’s a very lucky woman. I have no idea what her number is, but for the record, I’m not speaking about women who have been with a few guys, or several guys. I’m speaking about women who rack up large numbers. I know several college students with numbers in the 30-50 range, and they’re totally freaked out about it. Yes, they lie because they know their bf’s will balk, but also because they want to erase those memories of irresponsible, drunken, crappy sex (most of which they had for ego reasons, speaking of ego.)
tom says:
December 16, 2010 at 4:08 pm
terre
I guess you missed my comment about the millions of college girls over the years who got around in college, but managed to get married and are now soccer moms?…lol…Kinda blows your “one reformed slut” theory out of the water doesnt it?
I grew up in the hippy era, you remember, free love. Being pomiscuous is nothing new, it is just talked about more now. I know of MANY women who slept around and yet now live humble modest lives……
You guys must have met some real losers who were also promiscuous, because, having lots of sex “can” be just like why people start smoking. the cool thing to do, peer pressure etc…not all people who sleep around as psycotic
Abbot says:
December 16, 2010 at 4:19 pm
“Can we not say the same things about promiscuous men? Are not their former women still out there?. Isnt it just as easy for a man to shed his clothes for another if the marriage gets a little rocky?
women have accepted men in the boys will be boys senario for years. So what is wong with men? why cant they do the same?”
.
Of course its the same for men. But there are far fewer men with the number of people he has had sex with compared to women. The point is women are NOT doing the same! They have gone way beyond what men were or are doing because its so much much easier for them to do that. This is not equality at all…its a very skewed activity and men are very uncomfortable with what is going on and are on alert when a woman says she wants to “settle down.” The current situation places women as guilty until proven otherwise, and I think rightly so.
terre says:
December 16, 2010 at 4:20 pm